The hidden lives of MySpacers

by Joshua Porter  |   16 Comments  |  shortlink: http://bokardo.com/p/595

Why opinions from anybody but users rarely matter.

It’s too fun to play pundit. When MySpace was growing hugely popular, about the time that it was sold to News Corp. for 580 million dollars, everyone had an opinion about it.

It’s ugly. It’s horribly designed. They got lucky. It’s just perfect timing. The page views are way out of whack. It’s a fluke. Whatever the reason, it was en vogue to trash the site. Very few people who didn’t use the site (other than investors) gave much credit to the amazing growth and success they were enjoying.

The people sharing their opinions …designers, technologists, journalists, weren’t the people who mattered. They (we) didn’t matter because they (we) weren’t using the site.

Then I had a conversation with an actual MySpacer, and I never thought about MySpace the same. Kelli was despondent. I asked her what was wrong, and she brought up MySpace. “My boyfriend…well now my ex-boyfriend…completely deleted me from his MySpace account. I was first on his Top 8 list, and now I’m not on his list and I can’t even view his profile. He un-friended me.”

To her, MySpace wasn’t just a web site, it was an integral part of her social life. What happened there was as real as anything offline. She explained that since all of her friends were also on the site, being removed from a Top 8 List was a form of public punishment. Her boyfriend might just as well have stood up in the school cafeteria and shouted that the relationship was over. It was a statement about social standing, about being accepted as a part of a group, and it affected her emotionally as much as a face-to-face interaction.

That kind of thing happens every day on MySpace: to people who are invested in the site in a way that no pundit ever could be, even if they tried. There are relationships being broken, fixed, and created all the time and people who don’t use the site will never know it until they ask.

So don’t listen to pundits, loud bloggers, or any individual just because they have a large following or can make a lot of noise…especially if they haven’t used the site on a regular basis! Make sure that the sample of people you’re listening to is part of the actual user population. It will completely change your conception of what social software is.

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1.  qp 8:41am, Fri 20th, 2007

Great observation in your last paragraph. We do a lot of user research where we recruit people to use our products and provide feedback (we might as well be testing with monkeys). Problem with this is that it is artificial; because emotionally and financially the prospects are not invested.

Testing can only tell you so much, it doesn’t give you real emotional context. You can only learn that by launching a product and then learning whether you hit the mark in connecting with your users — then you iterate until you get it. By and large, My Space is a good concept that did a lot of things right. Emotionally it connected with it’s audience, regardless of the design.

2.  heri 8:43am, Fri 20th, 2007

this is a though-provoking post.

i think that good designers has always this artsy side, which makes them disconnected from the pack.

also, because myspace is the #1 destination on the internet, does this article imply that web designers have to open an account in myspace?

3.  Eric DeLabar 9:17am, Fri 20th, 2007

As a web developer I signed up for MySpace and Facebook as soon as I heard about them to see what the buzz was about; but since most of my friends were neither geeks nor in college, they never got much use.

Recently, I joined a community theatre group which lead to interaction with a set of talented high-school kids, none of whom I’d consider “friends” per say, but one of them found my facebook page. Within a week I was added to all of their friends lists. I was fascinated. It drove a decent amount of traffic to my website, not the target audience, but traffic none the less.

Of course now I’m the creepy 20-something on facebook with all the teenage friends, but I guess it’s a decent proof of concept for social marketing, and a fascinating view of a more or less invisible culture.

4.  Josh 9:34am, Fri 20th, 2007

Eric…love the phrase “invisible culture”!

That’s exactly it…it’s the culture that’s hidden, not the life, per se.

5.  Josh 9:37am, Fri 20th, 2007

@qp…I agree with everything that you said, up until the last sentence.

It is my conviction that this is all part of design…that the decisions about what social features to add, how to connect users, and how to enable “invisible culture” (to use our new term), is all about design.

Now, if you were talking about visual design, then I still agree 100%. :)

6.  Kyle 11:26am, Fri 20th, 2007

Great post. Amusingly enough, my company, with it’s latest release yesterday, has a (very)beta product rolling out, which allows users to create their own health pages, uploading videos, images, and other “snippets” from our site and around the web.

It was developed without much design resources, and as a designer, it’s been fascinating to watch the product evolve. Everyone sees the power of the technology, but a few on the design team struggle to embrace the project, meanwhile, nearly everyone else, while they struggle with it and realize it’s needs work, they are nonetheless thrilled with it, and I’ve seen people in the office til 10pm working on 5 or more personal pages because it’s such a powerful tool of expression for them.

A few examples:
http://www.revolutionhealth.com/pages/jill-macneice-s-buteyko-page

http://www.revolutionhealth.com/pages/weight-a-minute–the-procrastinators%E2%80%99-diet-club

http://www.revolutionhealth.com/pages/type-ii-diabetes

I think, as it is with Myspace, that we as designers, technologists, etc, have our standards rightfully set high, but most people just want to be able to express themselves, have their voice heard, and feel like they’re connecting with others, and are not too concerned if the tools are don’t align themselves to the exact pixel, etc.

As a designer at Rev, I’m fascinated to see how this tool evolves, and how design can involve itself in project (hence, one of the reasons I subscribe to this blog). :-)

7.  krst. 5:04pm, Fri 20th, 2007

One of my favourite entries. :)

8.  Seyora 8:36pm, Fri 20th, 2007

I’m sorry, but social network websites are overrated. People need to get out there and get some fresh air. I worry for my generation.

9.  Jermayn Parker 10:58pm, Fri 20th, 2007

@ Seyora: Yes social network websites are overrated but unless you move with the times of life and web design.

I agree with you btw but MySpace and even Virb are a thing of the present. Yesterday it was computer games and before that it was drugs and rock n roll etc.

btw just for the record I have some thoughts on MySpace and also Virb if you wanted to follow them hear.

10.  Leisa Reichelt 12:52pm, Sun 22nd, 2007

this is simiar to the experience I’ve had with Twitter. On first blush, it seems like an overly simplistic and unnecessarily noisy application. But once you experience the connections that it creates it becomes a very different experience.

For me, this says a lot about the way that we should be approaching ‘testing’ applications like this. It’s certainly not a traditional 1hr usability test in a lab with a brand new user that’s going to help identify whether or not social sites are working.

11.  David Malouf 3:01pm, Mon 23rd, 2007

Josh, what’s interesting in your example is that it sounds soooo familiar to anyone who was on AOL a few years ago or really pre-1997 to be exact.

AOL was a community bastion. You didn’t have the web of networks presented like in MySpace or other social apps today. But while lower in fidelity if you will, the experiences are really the same.

This is why I have always said that the success of MySpace and Facebook is b/c AOL failed and nothing more or less. If AOL sustained its energy and evolved, it could have been great, but it went the media/content route and forgot about its core content creators, their users.

Oh Welll! loose and learn, they should hope.

– dave

12.  Joel Free Std help find out symptoms and cures and more. 1:09am, Fri 27th, 2007

I signed up for myspace a month or so ago because everyone i worked with pushed me to do it. so i did and everyone became friends with me but i got bored fast im barley ever home to answer my phone no less spend my time watching stupid clips that really have nothing to do with anything. anyway i probably have a milion messages right now and ill probably never check again.

13.  Michael Camilleri 8:43pm, Fri 27th, 2007

This is a little bit outside of what you’re getting at but what generated the same reaction in me wasn’t meeting a MySpacer but reading Danah Boyd’s blog. She’s a PhD student at Berkeley who specialises in studying teenagers and their use of social networks like MySpace. If you want to see how important social networks are to the next generation in terms of their social lives I highly recommend hitting it up.

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